sassyalpha:

elena gilbert in every episode: you’re undead to me

elenasbluebow:

IT IS MAY 23

THE DAY THAT ELENA WENT OVER THE BRIDGE AND LOST HER PARENTS

THE DAY THAT SHE FIRST MET DAMON, AND STEFAN SAVED HER

THE DAY THAT TURNED HER ENTIRE LIFE AROUND FOREVER

I AM SAD

so i can see how badly this will hurt me
when you say goodbye

hercosmiclove:

But the funniest thing about 2x20 is that Elena says she loves Stefan and she knows that, and then she says she is 17 years old and she doesn’t know what love is.

hercosmiclove:

The Salvatore fireplace is the new Gilbert/Delena porch

only thing i’m gonna say about this “delena is abusive” stuff i’m seeing floating around:

delena can be abusive. but so can all other ships on this show. even the more “innocent” relationships, like maroline. the point is that damon and elena do overstep their boundaries when it comes to one another, but the writers don’t brush over those actions and romanticize them. for example, in 2x20, damon feeds elena his blood so that she can live, an action that can be SEEN as abusive, and the writers don’t let damon get away with that. they make damon try and redeem himself. and in 4x23, when elena decides that she wants to save damon’s life by using the cure on him AGAINST HIS WILL, that can be seen as abusive. but the writers don’t ignore how wrong it is, by having damon himself call elena out on how a few seconds ago she was talking about how she wanted to make sure silas didn’t destroy humanity, but she was willing to throw it all away for him. 

what i’m saying is that delena DOES have problematic aspects to their relationship. the important part is that the writers point them out and make it a point to show their flaws and how those flaws make damon and elena who they are. this is very different from most of the other relationships on this show (not gonna name any in particular…) because the writers don’t go out of their way to point out the problematic aspects in the other relationships. 

damon and elena are real. they have issues. they do things the other may not want because they love each other too much. that’s who they are and if the writers continue to portray them the way they’re being portrayed right now, i’m fine with that.

“fresh as a daisy”